What is a thermo-spat? Why does it happen so frequently?

It's a scene that plays out in millions of homes across the UK every autumn. One person, feeling a distinct chill in the air, walks over to the thermostat and nudges it up a degree or two. A short while later, another person in the same house, feeling uncomfortably warm, quietly nudges it back down. This silent (or sometimes, not-so-silent) battle for control of the central heating is famously known as a "thermostat war" or a "thermo-spat". It’s a source of endless frustration and debate in households, workplaces, and relationships.
But why does it happen so frequently? Is one person simply being unreasonable? The truth is that these disagreements aren't just about personal preference; they are deeply rooted in human physiology. Understanding the science behind why we all experience temperature differently is the first step. The second, and most important, is realising that modern heating technology now offers a definitive peace treaty. This guide from Company Blue will explore the reasons behind the thermostat wars and show you how to use smart heating solutions to ensure everyone in your home can feel comfortable.
Why We Can't Agree: The Science of Feeling the Cold
The reason these "thermo-spats" are so common is that no two people experience temperature in exactly the same way. What feels perfectly cosy to one person can be genuinely chilly to another. This isn't just in your head; it's based on several physiological factors:
- Metabolic Rate: Your body is constantly generating its own heat through metabolism. Factors like age, body size, and particularly muscle mass, all affect your basal metabolic rate (BMR). Someone with more muscle mass will naturally generate more heat at rest than someone with less, and will therefore often feel comfortable at a lower ambient temperature. This is one of the primary reasons why men and women frequently have different temperature preferences.
- Circulation: How efficiently your blood circulates plays a huge role in how warm you feel, especially in your hands and feet. Circulation can be affected by age, fitness levels, and underlying health conditions, leading to significant differences in temperature perception between individuals.
- Activity Level: A person sitting still at a desk for an hour will feel much colder than someone moving around, doing household chores. The person who is less active will naturally want the heating set higher to compensate.
- Acclimatisation and Habit: Our bodies become accustomed to certain environments. Someone who is used to a cooler house or spends a lot of time outdoors may find a centrally heated room stuffy and overpowering, while someone used to a warmer environment will feel the cold more acutely.
The Root of the Conflict: The Single Thermostat Problem
The technical cause of the thermostat war is the traditional setup in most UK homes: a single, central thermostat, usually located in a hallway or living room. This one device attempts to regulate the temperature for the entire property. It's a blunt, one-size-fits-all approach that completely fails to account for the physiological differences between people or the different heating needs of each room. When the hallway is 21°C, the bedroom might be 19°C and the home office 22°C. The conflict is inevitable because the system is designed to fail.
The Solution: How Modern Heating Creates a Lasting Truce
The only way to truly win the thermostat war is for everyone to get what they want. The solution is to move away from single-point control and embrace modern zonal heating. This means creating the ability to set different temperatures in different rooms, at different times.
1. Thermostatic Radiator Valves (TRVs): The Peacekeepers
TRVs are the simplest and most effective way to introduce zonal heating to a wet central heating system. By fitting a TRV to each radiator, you give individuals control over their own space. This allows the person in the home office who feels the cold to set their radiator to '4' (approx. 22°C), while the person in the living room can have theirs set to '3' (approx. 20°C). The TRV acts as a local thermostat for each room, ending the reliance on the single hallway thermostat to dictate everyone's comfort.
2. Electric Radiators: The Ultimate Zonal Solution
Modern, Lot 20 compliant electric radiators take zonal heating to the next level. Each electric radiator is a completely independent, self-contained heating zone. They come with their own integrated, highly accurate digital thermostats and 24/7 programmable timers. This is the perfect solution for bedrooms, where partners often have different temperature preferences. One person can have their side of the room cooler, while the other enjoys more warmth, all managed by the individual radiators rather than a central system.
3. Smart Heating Controls
For the ultimate in personalised control, smart heating systems (for both wet and electric systems) allow individuals to adjust the temperature in their zone directly from a smartphone app. This means you can discreetly boost the heat in your space without having to get up and start another "thermo-spat" at the wall thermostat.
FAQ: Winning the Thermostat War
Here are our answers to common questions about finding the perfect temperature.
What is the 'ideal' room temperature for a UK home?
While personal preference is key, most health organisations and energy bodies like the Energy Saving Trust recommend a temperature of between 18°C and 21°C for main living areas. However, the whole point of the 'thermostat war' is that this single recommended range doesn't work for everyone!
Does turning the thermostat up to maximum heat the house faster?
No, this is a very common myth. Your thermostat is a switch that sets a target temperature; it is not an accelerator. Turning it to 30°C won't make your boiler work any harder or your radiators get hotter any faster. It will just keep the heating on for longer until it reaches that uncomfortably high target, wasting a huge amount of energy in the process.
Can TRVs really solve our arguments over the heating?
Yes, to a large extent. By allowing you to set different temperatures in different rooms, they stop the argument from being about a single setting for the whole house. The person who feels the cold can make their room warmer without affecting the person who prefers a cooler environment in another room. They are a fantastic tool for achieving household harmony.
My partner is always cold. Besides adjusting the heating, what else can help?
Absolutely. Before cranking up the heat for the whole house, consider simple solutions. Check for drafts from windows and doors and use draft excluders. Using a warm blanket or throw on the sofa, or wearing slippers and a jumper, can make a huge difference to personal comfort without needing to increase the energy bill for everyone.
Is it actually cheaper to have different zones at different temperatures?
Yes, massively cheaper. The most expensive way to heat a home is to heat every single room to the temperature preference of the person who feels the coldest. By using zonal controls like TRVs or electric radiators, you can heat the living room to 21°C while keeping an unused spare bedroom at a low background temperature of 16°C. This targeted approach dramatically reduces energy waste and is the key to lower heating bills.